A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes.
When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.
The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.
The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words???
The husband just said "I Love You Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.
There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend so much time asking who is responsible or who is to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. that we miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do?  Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by
holding on to unforgiveness.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

THINK.....

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.
 Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."

REMEMBER.....
Caring should be in the Heart and not in Words.
Anger should be in Words and not in the Heart.


       
HAVE A NICE DAY!!!

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KICK AGAINST THE PRICK.....

Question: What does "kick against the pricks" mean?

    Answer: The question is probable referring to Acts 9:5 or 26:14. Saul (later called Paul) had been persecuting Christians (Acts 9: 13,14). Even though Saul had been sincere, Saul was wrong (Acts 23: 1,26:9). Saul was acting according to the law of Moses, but this system had been abrogated (2 Cor. 3). Hence, Saul had no authority for his actions.

    A large percentage of people in the first century were tillers of the soil. Oxen were used to work the soil. The prick or goad was a necessary devise. The prick was usually a wooden shaft with a pointed spike (prick) at one end. The man working the ox would position the goad in such a way as to exert influence and control over the ox. You see, if the ox refused the command indicated by the farmer, the goad would be used to jab or prick the ox. Sometimes the ox would refuse this incentive by kicking out at the prick. As result, the prick would be driven deeper into the flesh of the rebellious animal. The more the animal rebelled, the more the animal suffered. Hence, the statement to Saul: "It is hard for thee to kick against the pricks." (Saul was rebelling against God.)

    God possesses total authority (see Matt. 28: 18). God therefore, has the right to "boss" man. God has given man commandments to be obeyed (IJohn 5:3). However, man may elect to disobey God (Josh. 24: 15). When man disobeys, however, man pays. "The way of transgressors is hard," wrote Solomon (Prov. 13: 20). God/man is analogous to the farmer/ox situation. When we disobey God, we hurt ourselves. When we continue to disobey and rebel, we are like the ox – driving the prick in deeper and deeper, hurting ourselves in rebelling against authority! Beloved, when will we learn? Jesus is the author of eternal salvation to all who obey him (Heb. 5: 8,9).

http://www.biblequestions.org/Archives/BQAR075.htm

WE MAKE SO MANY FRIENDS... BEST POEM 2016

We make so many friends,
Some become Dearest,
Some become Special,we
Fall in love with some,
Some go abroad,
Some change their cities,
Some leave us,
We leave some,
Some are in contact,
Some are not in contact,
Some don't contact because of their ego,
We don't contact some because of our ego,
Whatever they are,
However they are,
We still remember, love, miss, care for them because of the part they played,made MEMORIES in our lives!

WE MAKE SO MANY FRIENDS... BEST POEM 2016

We make so many friends,
Some become Dearest,
Some become Special,we
Fall in love with some,
Some go abroad,
Some change their cities,
Some leave us,
We leave some,
Some are in contact,
Some are not in contact,
Some don't contact because of their ego,
We don't contact some because of our ego,
Whatever they are,
However they are,
We still remember, love, miss, care for them because of the part they played,made MEMORIES in our lives!

WE MAKE SO MANY FRIENDS... BEST POEM 2016

We make so many friends,
Some become Dearest,
Some become Special,we
Fall in love with some,
Some go abroad,
Some change their cities,
Some leave us,
We leave some,
Some are in contact,
Some are not in contact,
Some don't contact because of their ego,
We don't contact some because of our ego,
Whatever they are,
However they are,
We still remember, love, miss, care for them because of the part they played,made MEMORIES in our lives!

SCIENTISTS IVENT "WORLDS LIGHTEST" MATERIAL -PcMag

Researchers have created a material that's so light it can rest comfortably on a dandelion seed head without disturbing the fluffy, delicate structure of the plant. The "ultralight metallic microlattice" invented by scientists at UC Irvine, HRL Laboratories, and Caltech is described in the Nov. 18 issue of Science.
The new material is 100 times lighter than styrofoam, according to reports. The secret to its lightness is a cellular architecture fabricated from hollow tubes that supports a material structure that is in reality 99.99 percent air, according to the research team that built it.
That means the material's density is less than one-thousandth that of water. And the stuff is pretty resilient as well—researchers said that when squashed to half its height, the material rebounds 98 percent of the way back.


"The trick is to fabricate a lattice of interconnected hollow tubes with a wall thickness 1,000 times thinner than a human hair," lead author Tobias Shandler of HRL said, according to the Los Angeles Times.
The material seen resting on a dandelion seed head in the picture above is 90 percent nickel, according to the Times, but Bill Carter, manager of the architected materials group at HRL, told the newspaper that it can be made out of other materials as well.
One UC Irvine researcher involved with the project suggested the ultra-lightweight material might be used for impact protection, and might have applications "in the aerospace industry, acoustic dampening, and maybe some battery applications," according to the Times.
The material behaves somewhat like a feather when dropped, floating to the ground, Carter told the paper.
"It takes more than 10 seconds, for instance, for the lightest material we've made to fall if you drop it from shoulder height," he said.

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